What do you feel when you’ve achieve your goals?

“You’re going to do what?” That was the question my friends and family asked me when I told them that I had decided to be a pilot.

Back when I started flying, there were not a lot of female pilots in the air, so it was unusual to hear that a female was going to teach people how to fly airplanes.

At the time, I didn’t really care about the naysayers who let me know with their raised eyebrows and snarky comments that they thought I was certifiable. What mattered to me was that I got to be in the air every single day!

That goal was born out of the sheer love I felt for piloting an aircraft. I saved up for 2 years to pay for my training and now it was happening. Alone in the sky, I felt one with everything around me. The world made sense and so did I. I loved to preflight. I loved to talk planes. I even loved ground school! That’s how I knew that the next step for me was to become a Flight Instructor and so I did. I felt like I was exactly where I was meant to be.

I followed my bliss and I found a profession that I loved.

Legend tells us that at the end of the rainbow, we’re supposed to find a pot of gold. But when you and I attain our most coveted goals, many of us feel empty afterwards. Do you? Have you found yourself questioning why you went after those goals in the first place? Are you following your bliss or are you following somebody else’s?

If so, you’re not alone. Sometimes, the goals we choose for ourselves belong to other people. They were the goals our parents wanted for us or they were the goals that caused us to be accepted as part of a group. Perhaps, they were the goals that would make us feel admired and respected by others, but we never thought to ask ourselves whether we would admire ourselves once we had achieved them.

How do you know whether your goals are right for you?

One way you can find out whether a goal is right for you is by using inquiry. Answer these four questions to see whether you are acting on your own initiative or whether you are acting on the voices of your parents, peers, or prominent people that you admire.

Goal Alignment Check-In

  1. Does the goal meet your needs or your values as defined by you? If not, you have to identify how it would make you feel to continue to work toward that goal and decide whether the tradeoffs are worth the pain of the inevitable conflicts that will arise.
  2. Does the goal give you joy as you work on the steps to attain it or do you dislike the process but want the reward? If you love what you do, then it will be easier to continue when obstacles appear. If, however, you are only looking forward to the reward, it’s not only much harder to be successful, it is also harder to control your mindset during the process.
  3. Why do you want that goal? What feeling are you going after? If your answer has to do with pleasing others, you need to identify if you are doing it for the right reasons.
  4. Do you see yourself as the type of person who achieves that kind of goal? If this is a no, evaluate why you want the goal in the first place.

The idea of this kind of check-in is for you to gain clarity about the drivers of your goal choices. The clearer you are about those drivers, the better decisions you will make when it comes to choosing a goal.

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What would it feel like for you to be able to look back on 2019 with the excitement, the pride, and the knowledge that you made those important goals – those dreams – happen? There’s still time to turn it around.

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