Common wisdom is often times not common practice.
The information I share in this blog is for you to experiment with and see if it makes your life better.
Give my suggestions a try! Come on, what have you got to lose except more time?
How To Master Your Priorities With Calm
How do you choose which item gets your attention first? This week's topic is about managing priorities, because many of us are struggling right now to balance our personal lives with our work lives. The most common complaint: exhaustion. We may have new projects at...
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Extraordinary Relationships Are Closer Than You Think
How many friends does it take to make you happy? Today, I'm writing about relationships and how to improve them, because many of my followers have shared with me that if they could improve this area, it would make the most difference in the overall quality of their...
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The “Be First” Movement
What's being first mean to you? I got back last Friday from a week of intense high-performance coaching training which was not unlike going through the guantlet of a 3.5 hour black belt test in Tae Kwon Do only it was more like 8 hours each day and it lasted for 5...
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Why Are You Sticking to THAT Story?
Today's post is about the stories we tell ourselves about why we can't have what we want. Sometimes, our narratives aren't helpful and actually can get in the way of our successes. Ultimately, our goal is to have narratives that support and empower us to achieve the...
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Delay Destroys Drive and Here’s What To Do About It
In this week's post, I write about delay and how it can destroy our drive to act. I also will give you some easy steps to follow to trigger your drive. This, in turn, will help you to get out of delay, so that, you can enjoy doing more and having more success in your...
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Discovering Secrets on Doubt
How do you talk to yourself when no one can hear you? Let's try something here. Think of something you really want - really really want - and then talk to yourself like this: Will I be embarrassed? Will I look dumb? Can I really do that? When will I find the time? It...
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The Principle Behind “Escape Energy” and How to Use it to Your Advantage
What sparks action in you? The last couple of weeks I have been feeling a little stressed. What usually happens at this time of year is quarterly performance reviews, registrations for next year, summer activities, spring break, finals, graduations, holiday and...
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What Does It Take To Get the Win/Win?
Win/win scenarios don't have to be difficult Do you know that song, "King of Anything" by Sarah Bareilles? "Keep drinking coffee, stare me down across the tableWhile I look outsideSo many things I'd say if only I were ableBut I just keep quiet and count the cars that...
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Spilling the Tea
I am going to "spill the tea" or the wine, as the case may be, with y'all today. Are you familiar with the phrase spilling the tea?! I learned about it from my daughter who happens to be a middle school English teacher. Her students were talking about spilling the tea...
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Why Are You Here? Yes, You!
No, Really. Why are you here? Is it to get the most toys before you die? Is it to be admired by the world? Is it to love and be loved? Is it to be the best? Is it to feel important, powerful, distinctive … necessary? And before you click off this post and dismiss it...
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How To Use Disappointment To Drive You Toward Success
Your most difficult moments oftentimes turn into the foundation for your future success. It Began Like This... There I was sitting with two friends who I had brought to meet a relative (who shall remain nameless.) The restaurant was elegant and the energy in the room...
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Prioritize the Right Way and Everything Becomes Easier
Intention is reality until you open your mouth. 🙂 Have you heard that one before? Just so we are clear - intentions are what you want to have happen, in detail, i.e., what you want to feel, how you want to be, who you choose to be with, what you want to do, etc......
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Tedious Tolerations and What to Do About Them
Welcome to the first full week of 2019! In this post, I discuss those pesky and tedious tolerations and what to do about them, so that, you can create more space in your day that can create more space in your brain. When you get more space, you have a clearer view of...
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You Are One Step Away From Something Great
This will be my last blog post for the year, and when 2019 gets here, I'll have some cool stuff to share and some opportunities to help you to create a life of extraordinary meaning, contribution and success. Wishing you all a happy and safe holiday and a fun, rockin...
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All is Calm. All is Bright.
The alleyway was dark with only a few street lamps to light our way. In the distance, you could hear the strands of "Silent Night," but where we were at, I didn't feel so calm nor bright. While the Victorian "streets" were bustling with eager vendors, with "in...
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5 Ways to Keep Your Sanity and Be Productive During the Holidays
Look familiar? Is this you after driving on HWY 280Â at rush hour or getting ready for another holiday event? How do you feel about having to wait in yet another line and wondering why it doesn't seem to move? Well, I think we all can relate to that frazzled kind of...
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Me at 150
It is really hard to believe that this is my 150th blog post! I started writing a blog back in 2014, and at that time, it was the safest place I could thing of to express myself, because the people around me weren't very open to my way of thinking, seeing and...
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What The Bleep Is An Appreciation Feast and Why You Need To Have One!
I wanted a story to illustrate why the Appreciation Feast activity is so powerful and life changing. It was then that I remembered an article about a US soldier who carried in his pocket a worn, brown piece of paper. On that paper was a bunch of childrens'...
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Edison’s Secret
Edison - The title screen opens and you see, "The Man. The Myth. The Legend." Sweeping music floods your ears and you are swept away to a shot of a tall man looking out over the expanse, as the sun rises. There is satisfaction in his eyes and a trace of a smile around...
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Leadership – The Truth of What Works
I have been on a mission this past month to ferret out the truth of what works. Why? Because I think with all the noise we hear, the distractions we have, the directives, the email, the movies, the tv, the books ... the career, the family, the friends, the hobbies,...
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Best Practices That Make A Difference
Have you seen those top ten lists that are everywhere? Top ten books, top ten productivity hacks, top ten foods that increase your sex drive and make you smart at the same time? When you see "Top Ten..." what do you think? Well, if you are like me, I think best...
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How Do You Get To The Truth?
I was so frustrated! It felt like I was hitting my head on a brick wall. I looked everywhere for my wedding rings. I retraced my steps, I asked for assistance in the search, I meditated, prayed, and searched some more. I still couldn't find them. It wasn't just the...
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What’s Your Mirror Been Telling You, Lately?
I had that sinking feeling you get when you know that you're not getting the results you want, but you can't quite put your finger on the cause. Do you know what I mean? You get uncomfortable, so maybe you just ignore the feeling and go watch a tv show, or go to the...
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When Does Your Conversation Turn Crucial?
Have you ever wondered how a conversation spun out of control? You know what I mean? You had the best of intentions and it started out really well only to end in a disaster? I've had a few of those myself. What makes Crucial Conversations a great resource to help...
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Speak Up and How To Be More Effective When You Do!
Effective and infuential communication is easier than you think when you have clarity, courage and initiative to speak your mind. But do we? Do we really know what we are going to say when we step into a conversation? Have we thought about who we want to be and what...
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About Me
Hi I'm Coach Christine, High Performance Coach, Lifelong Adventurer, Tae Kwon Do Instructor & Writer 🙂 
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